It's 2 AM. Your child is still awake, highlighter in hand, trying to memorize one more chapter. You've made tea three times already. "Beta, just finish this chapter," you say, thinking you're helping.
But you might actually be hurting their exam performance.
With CBSE board exams starting February 17, 2026, for both Class 10 and 12, this winter is going to be stressful for thousands of families. And the biggest mistake we're all making is treating sleep like it's optional.
The Science Behind Sleep and Academic Performance
Scientists have been studying students during exam season, and the results are pretty clear. When students sleep less than 6-7 hours before an exam, their scores drop by an average of one full grade. That's the difference between an 85 and a 75. Between a distinction and just passing.
Why? Because your brain doesn't just rest during sleep. It's actually working hard, organizing everything you studied, moving information from short-term memory to long-term memory, and making connections between concepts.
Think of it like this: studying is like putting clothes in a washing machine. Sleep is when the machine actually runs. Without it, you just have a pile of wet, messy clothes.
Cultural Myths About Late-Night Studying
In India, we have this deeply rooted belief of waking up early and studying till late hours. We've all heard our parents and grandparents say this. We think suffering = success.
So, your child studies till 1 AM, wakes up at 5 AM. That's 4 hours of sleep. They go to school tired, can't focus in class, come home exhausted, take a long nap, wake up groggy, then stay up late again to "cover" what they missed. It's a cycle that makes everything worse.
Common Parenting Mistakes During Exam Season
This is hard to hear, but sometimes, with all good intentions, we create the problem.
We say things like:
- "Sharma ji's son studies till 3 AM every day!"
- "It's boards, sleep later."
- "How can you sleep when your future is at stake?"
We do things like:
- Making endless cups of coffee to keep them awake
- Checking on them at night to "make sure they're studying."
- Comparing them to relatives' kids who "never sleep."
But, Sharma ji's son might be studying till 3 AM, but we don't see his exam hall panic attacks. We don't see him forgetting answers he knew perfectly well the day before. We don't see his health suffering.
Understanding Student Anxiety and Sleep Guilt
Talk to any Class 10 or 12 student right now, and you'll hear the same fears:
"If I sleep, I'll miss important topics."
"Everyone else is studying more than me."
"I feel guilty when I rest."
This is the mentality we need to change.
Evidence-Based Study Strategies for Better Sleep
You can't just tell a stressed student, "Sleep 8 hours," and expect it to happen. Here are strategies that actually fit into exam preparation:
For Students:
- The 90-Minute Rule: Your brain works in 90-minute cycles. Study for 90 minutes, take a 15-minute break. After 3 cycles (about 5 hours), stop for the day. Quality over quantity.
- The 10 PM Hard Stop: Whatever isn't done by 10 PM won't magically get done by 2 AM. Your tired brain at midnight is much less efficient than your rested brain the next morning.
- The Morning Revision Trick: Wake up at your normal time (not 4 AM). Spend 30 minutes reviewing yesterday's work. This works better than cramming new topics when you're exhausted.
- The Nap Strategy: If you absolutely must study more, take a 20-30 minute power nap in the afternoon. Don't skip night sleep for this.
For Parents, Teachers, and Siblings:
- Stop the Comparison Game: Every single time you mention another student's study hours, you're adding anxiety. Just stop.
- Create a Shutdown Ritual: At 10 PM, the house gets quiet. No TV in the living room, no loud talking, no "just one more chapter" discussions.
- Lead by Example: If you're scrolling on your phone at midnight, your child feels like they should be studying. If you sleep on time, it normalizes rest.
- Talk About It: Ask, "How are you feeling?" not "How much did you study?" The first question actually helps; the second just adds pressure.
- Trust the Process: If your child has been studying regularly, they don't need to pull all-nighters in the last week. Trust that their preparation is enough.
Preparing for CBSE 2026 Board Exams: A Balanced Approach
As we get closer to February 17, 2026, the panic will increase. This is natural. But what you need to remember is that the student who sleeps 7-8 hours and studies 5 hours effectively will score better than the student who sleeps 4 hours and studies 8 hours in a foggy state.
Board exams are important, yes. But they're not worth destroying your health. They're not worth the anxiety attacks, the burnout, and the exhaustion.
Conclusion
Sleep isn't lazy. Sleep isn't giving up. Sleep is literally how your brain processes and stores everything you worked so hard to learn.
The smartest thing you can do this exam season is to close the book at a reasonable hour. Turn off the light. Trust that rest is part of preparation, not the enemy of it.
Your child's score matters. But their well-being matters more. And with proper sleep, you don't have to choose between the two.
So tonight, when you see your child studying at midnight, don't make more tea. Tell them it's time to sleep. That's real support. That's what they actually need.
Good luck with the boards. Sleep well.







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