What to talk and what not in front of your kids?

Parents are the first people that kids learn from and communicate with. Hence, what parents speak in front of the kids plays an important role in their development. Here are a few tips for enhancing their communication:

1. Avoid saying "NO" or any N-words:

It might sound difficult but it is very important to let your kid know why are you not allowing them to do something. For example, if your kid is asking you to play with them when you're working, instead of saying, "Not now", you can say, "I can't play with you right now because I am working" and further add, "But I promise, when I'm done with my work, we'll play together, in about an hour". Explaining them certain things can help them understand the situations better. always explain them instead of saying "NO" straight away.

2. Avoid saying "because I said so":

Remember that your kids are not going to simply follow what you say because they have their thinking. When you don't give them a reason and say "because I said so", their natural curiosity dies. So it is important to explain to them why are you asking them to do or not do something. For example, if your child has been watching TV for too long and you ask them to switch the TV off. they might ask you why, again and again. "Because I said so" will make them ask more and more and you might end up getting irritated. Instead, you can say, "You've been watching TV for almost 4 hours, switch it off because it's time to do your homework/play outside.

3. Avoid yelling or fighting in front of your kids:

Yelling to prove your point is something we've been wrong for too long now and it can be difficult to change that but when you put forth your argument politely they will learn that it isn't necessary to shout to prove your point and hence, become a better communicator. another reason to stop yelling is that kids are afraid of loud noises. When they hear you fighting or shouting they will probably hide away somewhere and avoid talking to you. and that's where the communication gap begins to develop and keeps widening.

Remember, the more positivity you bring to the table the better opportunities your child has to grow as an individual. Avoid swearing words at any cost and if you two have a heated argument, it is better to not let your child see you two fight. When we're parents, we are also the biggest role-models to our children so it is important to act responsibly.

Kids have the simplest and innocent of minds. So they commit the most of mistakes . They need to be corrected and then taught the right way of living in tge world. Our kids always think that whatever they do is supposed to be right. This works this way because our human mind works like this . Children mirror us. Whatever we do ,speak , perform has an effect on children in one way or another. So it is our duty to be mindful of whatever we do or speak so that the children learn the right thing and so they can avoid to learn the bad things from us.
We have to be careful of language we use in front of our kids to our friends , relatives family members etc.because the kid will learn the same words and languages we speak.
We should speak more about how to respect other people and respect other animals and beings , talk good about everyone . The moment we criticize people or anyone in front of our kids , they will learn that criticizing is normal and then they will criticize everyone else behind their backs when they grow up.
Swearing and cursing words should be strictly prohibited to be used inside the house premises. All types of shouts, fights and abuses should be avoided in front of children strictly.